Although I didn't realize it then, I certainly had a lot to learn and experience. This "learning" and "experiencing" was not always easy, but wow was it worth it! When I reflect on my twenties I can't help but associate those years with many wonderful moments, but also a lot of hard work and growing pains. In my twenties I worked 40+ hours a week waitressing while going to college full-time... and I paid for every bit of it myself. This is when I really learned the value of a dollar and the value of hard work. I remember how I could almost never bring myself to go shopping for anything superfluous because I would always calculate how many tables I would have to wait on to earn enough money to buy it...I almost always concluded that it wasn't worth it! I felt an enormous sense of pride when I graduated from college knowing I had truly earned that diploma. Then I moved on to law school. Wow, what a change of pace! I traded in my waitress' apron for a suit and schlepped my way through full-time law school and clerking at a law firm. It began to occur to me that this wasn't going to be as glamorous as I had imagined all those years before.
I "re-met" my husband and had the greatest time as we courted one another, and it was in no time before I knew he was "the one!" I got married to my wonderful husband. I began learning what it is to be a wife (and I know this will be something that I will continue to do - learn - for the rest of my life!). I relocated to a new state with my husband and faced many challenges stepping out of my proverbial comfort-zone to make this new town a home, and I couldn't be happier with how well we were able to do that. I began my career as an attorney - again I began to realize that this wasn't quite what I had always expected it to be. And finally, the most amazing and wonderful thing that has ever happened to me, and will ever happen, is that I became a mom to my wonderful, gorgeous daughter. She is my greatest joy and I could never adequately express my love for her ... but I will spend my life trying!
My twenties were a wonderful time, and I am so happy with the many blessings I received in those years. It is for this reason that I feel that I can truly embrace being 30, and I look forward to the many events and joys I have yet to experience.
~Missy
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